Dealing With Approaching Women
So, you want to learn how to really approach women properly?
In order to approach women correctly, you need to overcome your own approach anxiety. So what does it take to do that? You need to change your focus to being satisfied that you completed the process of the approach properly without worrying about what the result was.
I know this sounds silly and does nothing for productivity, but that’s because us guys use our left sided logic too much. But if you ever analyzed the reason as to why men are afraid to approach women, you’ll find that it is because men are afraid of not achieving the desired results. We guys care too much about the negative outcome, or rejection.
But, once you get out of the outcome focused mindspace, and change your thoughts to focus about just completing the approach, then it will remove unwanted pressure. By removing the outcome based approach, you won’t care about rejection because by simply approaching her properly you would have succeeded already! Heck, if you get her number or a date, well that’s a bonus!
If you do this, and take this mentality into other aspects of your dating life, you will realize that alot of self limiting beliefs are actually created by yourself and your desire to achieve a certain outcome. Once you realize that the outcome should not be the focus, and instead make sure you turn your attention to the process, then you will succeed a lot more.
Remember, the focus should be on the PROCESS and NOT the outcome!
There is no need to put additional pressure on yourself when there really is no need.
If you don’t want to be like all the other chumps and make stupid approach mistakes, check out: How To Approach Women. Please don’t do these mistakes that are mentioned, because you’ll hate yourself!
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