Approach Women
So, you want to learn how to really approach women properly?
In order to approach women correctly, you need to overcome your own approach anxiety. So how do you do that properly? You need to get the thought out of your head that you need to complete an objective and that you are focused on the outcome. You should be happy as long as you completed the steps involved in the process.
I know this sounds silly and does nothing for productivity, but that’s because us guys use our left sided logic too much. But if you pause to think about it, the reason why we are afraid to approach women is that we are afraid of the outcome. We as guys simply care too much about the outcome we don’t want such as being rejected.
Just adjust the way that you think for a moment, and tell yourself so long as you complete the approach and you’re a success, you make things a lot easier for yourself and removes heaps of unwated pressure. By removing the outcome based approach, you won’t care about rejection because by simply approaching her properly you would have succeeded already! If you get a bonus from it, like a number then that’s great!
If you just focus on the process, you will remove a lot of self limiting beliefs imposed by yourself due to your goal orientated nature, then you’ll start getting a lot more success. Once you realize that the outcome should not be the focus, and instead make sure you turn your attention to the process, then you will succeed a lot more.
NOTE, change the focus to be on the PROCESS instead of the OUTCOME!
There is no need to make things more difficult for yourself when you’re having trouble already.
If you want to learn how to approach women without making a fool of yourself, then avoid these mistakes detailed here: How To Approach Women. Please don’t do these mistakes, you will hate yourself if you do!
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